So I'm 15 and my parents have been divorced for a while now, I live half time with my mum and half time with my dad (swap over every week). My mum has had a boyfriend for a couple of years now and at first I didn't like him at all, well because I honestly think I was jealous but soon he moved in (which I wasn't happy about to begin with). After the jealousy had subsided I began to not mind him at all he acted like a mate instead of a father figure, mind you me and my mum are very close and she puts him in line when needed and says that we have a father and we don't need another.
A bit after my mum had got a boyfriend my dad had got a girlfriend, this was still all new to me so again I was very unhappy with this ( mainly because during the period he was single his relationship with me and my father grew so much closer ( he would kick the footy with us at the park after school and hang with us a lot and stuff like that). In fact one time we were at the park kicking the footy he said that if he got a girlfriend and my brother or I disliked her he would dump her, I don't hold him to his word because I realize how unfair that is on him. Any way prior to my parents splitting my mum and my dads girlfriend were actually close friends, she also worked at the same place as my dad for several years.
Soon my dad had built a house and she moved in along with it, instantly my hatred towards her grew stronger, it is no longer jealousy as I do not care if my father had another million girlfriends to come it is her, I cant stand her. Anyway she soon tried to become our mother ( setting out ridiculous rues, giving us housework, taking our belongings when she doesn't have her way). Such rules are we are not aloud any technology past 9:30 pm, max of 4 hours a day on technology on school holidays, all of these rules bypassed my father by the way.
My father always takes her side for everything and when I sit and try to tell him my feelings towards her he starts screaming and tells me to live full time with my mum. She is very immature, my mum is currently unemployed and she makes jokes about her all the time for it and my mother is doing a course this year and my dads girlfriend just keeps saying she isn't going to get a job afterwards. Pretty much everyone hates her besides my father( my brother is 13 and is too shy to tel my dad how he feels, my cousins won't come over because they dislike her, I fee bad for my brother as his friends parents won't allow them to come over as they do not like her because she tels everyone she is our step mother when she isn't and she has even caused a fight between our family and my aunty and uncle won't speak the my dad or her.
She is a passive smoker and tends to drink a lot, for my 15th birthday dad took me up to one of his mates farms for the weekend along with my best friend, my brother and my dads girlfriend. My dad was in a car with his mate and my brother, friend and I were with her and some other adult woman. We where 4 wheel driving and slowly they became drunk and we felt unsafe, she then began to start smoking in the car ( where I'm from that's illegal) and when we asked her to put it out she laughed. When we got back I told my father and he was very disappointed in her and they split only to get back together.
When they split I feel sorry for him but soon I become so happy as my father becomes a nicer person. How ever that doesn't last long as they always get back together within a month. She has put all these weird and sad paintings all around the house and dad hates them but he has no say. For the past 4 years every single argument between me and my father was about her. I try hard to like her but she is just so annoying, I'm 15 now and I'm not putting my big boy pants on or anything but like I said before when we don't do something she wants she takes our stuff away, my own mother thinks this is bizarre as I'm not 9 anymore.
I could go on for ages but I think I have written so much that people won't actually read this so I'm going to stop here, I'm just putting this out there because I need to talk about it please leave your comments and opinions
( I forgot to add that about a year ago me and my brother were messing around until it got out of hand then she came in and starting beating me with her shoe, it didn't hurt or anything but OMG I don't know what I would have done if I got a hold of that shoe)
A bit after my mum had got a boyfriend my dad had got a girlfriend, this was still all new to me so again I was very unhappy with this ( mainly because during the period he was single his relationship with me and my father grew so much closer ( he would kick the footy with us at the park after school and hang with us a lot and stuff like that). In fact one time we were at the park kicking the footy he said that if he got a girlfriend and my brother or I disliked her he would dump her, I don't hold him to his word because I realize how unfair that is on him. Any way prior to my parents splitting my mum and my dads girlfriend were actually close friends, she also worked at the same place as my dad for several years.
Soon my dad had built a house and she moved in along with it, instantly my hatred towards her grew stronger, it is no longer jealousy as I do not care if my father had another million girlfriends to come it is her, I cant stand her. Anyway she soon tried to become our mother ( setting out ridiculous rues, giving us housework, taking our belongings when she doesn't have her way). Such rules are we are not aloud any technology past 9:30 pm, max of 4 hours a day on technology on school holidays, all of these rules bypassed my father by the way.
My father always takes her side for everything and when I sit and try to tell him my feelings towards her he starts screaming and tells me to live full time with my mum. She is very immature, my mum is currently unemployed and she makes jokes about her all the time for it and my mother is doing a course this year and my dads girlfriend just keeps saying she isn't going to get a job afterwards. Pretty much everyone hates her besides my father( my brother is 13 and is too shy to tel my dad how he feels, my cousins won't come over because they dislike her, I fee bad for my brother as his friends parents won't allow them to come over as they do not like her because she tels everyone she is our step mother when she isn't and she has even caused a fight between our family and my aunty and uncle won't speak the my dad or her.
She is a passive smoker and tends to drink a lot, for my 15th birthday dad took me up to one of his mates farms for the weekend along with my best friend, my brother and my dads girlfriend. My dad was in a car with his mate and my brother, friend and I were with her and some other adult woman. We where 4 wheel driving and slowly they became drunk and we felt unsafe, she then began to start smoking in the car ( where I'm from that's illegal) and when we asked her to put it out she laughed. When we got back I told my father and he was very disappointed in her and they split only to get back together.
When they split I feel sorry for him but soon I become so happy as my father becomes a nicer person. How ever that doesn't last long as they always get back together within a month. She has put all these weird and sad paintings all around the house and dad hates them but he has no say. For the past 4 years every single argument between me and my father was about her. I try hard to like her but she is just so annoying, I'm 15 now and I'm not putting my big boy pants on or anything but like I said before when we don't do something she wants she takes our stuff away, my own mother thinks this is bizarre as I'm not 9 anymore.
I could go on for ages but I think I have written so much that people won't actually read this so I'm going to stop here, I'm just putting this out there because I need to talk about it please leave your comments and opinions
( I forgot to add that about a year ago me and my brother were messing around until it got out of hand then she came in and starting beating me with her shoe, it didn't hurt or anything but OMG I don't know what I would have done if I got a hold of that shoe)
I cant stand my dads girlfriend
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