The other night there was a group of people drinking, and my boyfriend got way to drunk. His friend said something to trigger him to get angry. He got in his friends face and started yelling at him. I grabbed his arm to try to stop him, he did not see me, and then pushed me to get me to let go and I went to the ground.
He of course apologized, and I told him that he has to take some actions to make a change if he wants me to stay with him. We are supposed to talk again tomorrow.
But, I'm questioning if I should give him the chance. He has had DUI's in the past, and I had really thought he had turned things around until these last few months when he has started drinking heavily again. I've been with him for a year. When he is not drinking, he is great. Never says anything mean to me or makes me feel bad. If he goes to therapy and support groups, is it worth it to wait it out a little while to see how things go?
He of course apologized, and I told him that he has to take some actions to make a change if he wants me to stay with him. We are supposed to talk again tomorrow.
But, I'm questioning if I should give him the chance. He has had DUI's in the past, and I had really thought he had turned things around until these last few months when he has started drinking heavily again. I've been with him for a year. When he is not drinking, he is great. Never says anything mean to me or makes me feel bad. If he goes to therapy and support groups, is it worth it to wait it out a little while to see how things go?
Should I forgive my boyfriend if he accidentily pushed me while he was drunk
0 commentaires:
Enregistrer un commentaire